Why You Must Never Rely On A Man

by Sylvie Tamanda
At age 21 I found out I was pregnant for a child that was intentionally conceived.
This man told me all the sweet things in the world and I truly believed that only death would do us part.
But just 3 months into my pregnancy, he went mute. Claimed he was dealing with stuff… so I practically was left to pay for all my medicals and purchase every single pin that my baby needed.
Imagine the transition from a single young and vibrant woman to a pregnant, depressed and nearly broke woman.
Lord have mercy!
Thank goodness I had my first degree in Accounting Finance and Audit and had been working prior to that event.
After nights of crying and cursing the universe, I fell back on my savings, and I created another source of income through network marketing(selling Forever living products).
Mind you that before my pregnancy, this man convinced me to quit my job and stay at home to experience a “wholesome and worry free pregnancy”.
He promised to be there emotionally, physically, mentally and financially. But ended up doing the exact opposite
Thank Goodness I never heed to his advice. I insisted on earning my own money and it saved me and my unborn baby.
My son was born lacking NOTHING.
And on the night I had my son, this individual turned up and and pretended to be remorseful, only to walk away 3 months later forever.
Lesson: Whether you’re married or single or entangled, NEVER EVER put all your financial eggs into your man’s basket because he could
  • die
  • loose his job
  • get tired of you
  • become gravely ill
  • abuse you (mentally, economically and physically)
Always always have a source of income, no matter how small.
What’s your opinion of this notion? I want to hear it in the comment section.
Share this with all your girlfriends, sisters, aunts and the females in your life. They’ll thank you later

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